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At Silent Stay Retreats, we believe that stepping out of the busy-ness of daily life into the sanctuary of one's heart is essential for inner peace, healing, and spiritual growth. Our retreats offer a precious opportunity to experience the transformative power of silence and stillness. For over 35 years, our founders, Bruce and Ruth Davis, have been leading retreats worldwide, guiding participants in heart-centered silence, meditation, and slow living. Our approach emphasizes nurturing the heart through simplicity, meditation, and the beauty of silence.
Our retreats are held at two locations: Pacifica Graduate Institute in Santa Barbara, CA, and The Ojai Hermitage in Ojai, California. Each location is set amidst acres of natural beauty, providing a serene backdrop for your journey. The daily program includes teachings and guidance on heart-centered silence, three group meditation sessions, silent sitting, silent meals, and non-doing periods with optional guided relaxation and gentle yoga.
Our retreats are designed to provide a gentle container where participants can let go of effort and practice receiving the presence available in the present moment. This leads to a deep sense of inner peace and connection to one's inner being. Journaling, reading, and meditating in the calm quiet of our heart, participants can reconnect to the depth of their inner being.
Healing Effects of Silence
Silence has the power to heal and transform. It allows us to rest our mind in the spacious quiet of our heart, where we can listen to what is naturally sacred within. In this stillness, we can experience a deep commonality and community in the Heart. Silence is not about doing nothing but about being present in the moment, free from distractions and the constant noise of daily life.
Additional Courses
In addition to our retreats, we offer various courses and workshops that delve deeper into the practices of heart-centered meditation, mindfulness, and spiritual growth. These courses are designed to support participants in integrating these practices into their daily life, fostering a deeper sense of inner peace, compassion, and self-love.
Guest Experiences
We are humbled by the profound impact our retreats have had on countless individuals. Many have reported a deep sense of healing, spiritual growth, and a renewed sense of purpose. We invite you to read more about their experiences and how our retreats have touched their lives.
In The News
Silent Stay Retreats have been featured in various publications, including CEOWORLD Magazine, SUCCESS Magazine, and NOOZHAWK, highlighting our unique approach to spiritual growth and wellness.

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