At James T. Toohey & Son Funeral Home, we take pride in our family history, which spans four generations. Our story began in 1947 when James and Ellen Shay Toohey established the James T. Toohey Mortuary in Shelton, Connecticut. Both James and Ellen came from families who owned and operated funeral homes as far back as the early 1900s. James was the grandson of T.E. Donovan and was associated with his funeral home in Shelton, while Ellen was the daughter of Edward J. Shay, whose funeral home was located in Ansonia.
Together, James and Ellen opened their own funeral home in Shelton after their marriage. In 1972, their son, Edward J. Toohey, graduated from the American Academy McAllister Institute of Funeral Service in New York City and joined his parents in running the funeral home, which later became James T. Toohey & Son Funeral Home. Edward was a member of many local organizations and was actively involved in the community, just like his parents.
After the passing of James in 1998, Edward and his mother Ellen continued to serve families with compassion and dedication to the community. In 2010, Edward Jr., a 2004 graduate of Shelton High School and Briarwood College, joined his grandmother in the family business. Like his father and grandparents, Edward Jr. is actively involved in local organizations and continues to serve families with the same compassion and dedication.
Our Services
At James T. Toohey & Son Funeral Home, we understand that losing a loved one is never easy. That's why we're committed to providing a comprehensive range of funeral services to help families honor their loved ones. Our experienced staff is dedicated to working closely with families to create a personalized and meaningful tribute to their loved one.
We offer a variety of funeral services, including traditional funerals, graveside services, memorial services, and viewings. We also provide pre-planning and pre-arrangement services, which enable individuals to plan and prepare for their own funeral or that of a loved one in advance.
Veterans Services
We have a special reverence for those who have served our country. We offer a range of services to honor the sacrifices of our nation's heroes. These services include:
- Graveside services
- Memorial services
- Burial flags and markers
- Headstones and headstones replacement
Grief Support
The loss of a loved one can be devastating, and we understand that grief is a natural response to loss. That's why we're committed to supporting families during this difficult time. Our experienced staff is trained to provide emotional support and guidance to help families navigate their grief.
In addition to our grief support services, we also offer a range of resources and information to help families understand the grieving process and find ways to cope with their loss. These resources include:
- Funeral planning information
- Grief support groups
- Online resources and articles
- Contact information for local bereavement counselors
Contact Us
We're here for you, 24/7. If you have any questions or concerns, please don't hesitate to contact us. You can reach us by phone at 203-924-9056 or by visiting our funeral home in person at 92 Howe Avenue, Shelton, CT 06484. If you prefer, you can also use the contact form below to send us a message.

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